1宽恕,原谅并不代表忘记,也不代表赦免,而是放自己一条生路。孤单不是有没有朋友的关系,而是有没有住在你的心里。
To forgive is not to forget, nor remit, but let it go; to be lonely is not because you have no friends, but no one is living in your heart.
2人都是会改变的,有些人选择改变环境,有些人选择被环境改变。很多时候你无法改变的时候,我只好选择,在里面找到让自己快乐的力量。
People will always change. Some choose to change the environment; some choose to be changed by the environment. Most of the time when you cannot change, you have to choose to find something to make yourself happy.
3事实上,这个世界不符合所有人的梦想。只是有人可以学会遗忘,有人却坚持。
The fact is that the world is out of everyone's expectation. But some learn to forget, but others insist.
4在这个世界上,只有真正快乐的男人,才能带给女人真正的快乐。
In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness.
5当一个人谁都不爱的时候,他就可以爱上身边的任何一个人。
If someone loves none, he may fall in love with anyone around him.
6有谁不曾为那暗恋而痛苦?我们总以为那份痴情很重,很重,是世上最重的重量。有一天,暮然回首,我们才发现,它一直都是很轻,很轻的。我们以为爱的很深,很深,来日岁月,会让你知道 ,它不过很浅,很浅。最深和最重的爱,必须和时日一起成长。
Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love? We always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize that it's always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but in fact it's very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up with the time.
7我总是,追赶,那些黑色的潮水断处的山崖,却忘记了命轮里,一季一季俏俏开放,又悄悄枯萎的,没有来路的葵花。
I am always running after those black tides from the cliff, but forget those sunflowers which blow and vanish every year.
8爱情不是存在于我住的地方,而是存在于我爱的地方。爱情是用全世界所有的名言都无法解释的未知世界。男人可以了解宇宙却不能了解女人,因为男人缺乏那种脑细胞。
Love doesn't exist in the place where I live but in the place I love. Love is an unknown place that no saying from all around the world can explain. Man can understand the universe but not women. Because man is lack of that understanding.
9人们说,找到了什么样的人就有了什么样的生活,于是不同的选择,就有不同的童话结尾。
It's often said that you will have the same life as the person you find. Therefore, different choices make different endings.
10不要期待完美的男人,不是因为你期待不到,而是根本没有完美的男人。
Never expect the perfect man, it's not because that you cannot find, but just because there is no perfect man.
11在这世界上无所谓偶然,只是伪装成偶然的必然。
In this world, there is no accident, but some certainty that pretends to be accident.
12偶尔要回头看看,否则永远都在追寻,而不知道自己失去了什么。
Sometimes you need to look back, otherwise you will never know what you have lost in the way of forever searching.
13好的爱情是你通过一个人看到整个世界,坏的爱情是你为了一个人舍弃世界。
Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.
14真爱,不是因为你能带给我什么而爱你,而是因为爱你而准备接受你所带来的一切。真爱就是不指望你让我能在人前夸耀,但在我的内心深处有这样的把握:即使所有的人不与我为伍,你也会依然站在我身边。
I love you not for the things you would bring to me but to accept everything you could bring. The true love is not for showing. But I am sure that even if all other people abandon me, you will still be my side.
15真正的女性是毅然抛弃所谓女性气质,却依然美丽的人;真正的男性是坚决承担男性责任,却依然感到悲愁的人。
The real women are those who are still beautiful even abandoning all the feminine things; while the real men are those who are still sad even taking over all the responsibilities.